Eliminating Negative Thinking – Philippians 4:4-9
Part Two
Most
regrettably, I must confess negative thinking heretofore has been a perpetual
way of life for me. With Almighty God’s
incredible and unending grace within the last few years, I have begun a
substantial paradigm shift. In
accordance with Psalm 27:13, I wholeheartedly expect to see the goodness of the
Lord in the land of the living. Whereas
I do believe in an immeasurable and indefinable eternal reward for disciples of
the Lord Jesus Christ, I no longer expect to wait for the afterlife to receive
it. As the “Giver of every good and
perfect gift,” He will impart graciously components of His rewards in this
life. Eliminating negative thinking is a
primary step in preparation for receipt of these divine gifts and favor.
Interestingly,
some psychologists and psychiatrists posit an unfair expectation of some
segments of society that people from poor and oppressed backgrounds are
equipped psychically to withstand greater emotional and existential
burdens. A former First Lady of the
United States unfortunately remarked, when assessing the challenging conditions
of Hurricane Katrina survivors who were living temporarily in the Superdome,
they seemed happy as they are used to dealing with rough living. Her harsh comments indicate that these people
could afford experientially to wait for whatever assistance, government or
otherwise, they would receive. After
all, they live a simple life with few frills.
Her assumptions allude to the negative thinking, with which many people
live as they limit themselves to minimal enjoyments or interests. Poor and oppressed are afraid to expect
anything from life. It is safer to
settle for basic necessities in the cheapest forms as they will not
disappoint. Nevertheless, this outlook
stipulates an unfair expectation for poor and oppressed people to accommodate
themselves easily to the life’s hardships.
Although
many people have surmounted poverty and political oppression, they still linger
in the squalor of negative thinking.
Similar to residents of public housing, trailer parks and rural board
houses, these people adjust to whatever adverse circumstances arise each
day. They surrender their hopes and
dreams to life’s most formidable enemies, fear and negativity.
Writing
to his most beloved church in Philippi, Paul offers effective techniques for
eliminating negative thinking in this brief passage. First, he instructs them to Rejoice in the
Lord always.” Music always comforts and
empowers; “[it] soothes the savage beast.”
Regardless of any day’s trials and tribulations, the right music can
help you overcome them. Periods of
praise and worship encourage us to see our Heavenly Father as awesome and
amazing. As we offer praise with
thanksgiving, we realize He is much greater than any obstacles or adversary we
face. However, our praise of Him does
not depend upon our circumstances. It
should be equal in good and bad times as He remains unquestionably faithful
regardless of our situation or setting.
Hence, Paul directs the Philippian Christians to rejoice all the time
whether on days of rain or sunshine. In
the Greek, the word, rejoice, means literally spinning ecstatically
irrespective of your surroundings. Paul
reiterates his directive, “I will say it again: Rejoice!”
Second,
at the time of Paul’s letter, the Church expected the imminent return and
Second Coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Some disciples forewent marriage and other earthly concerns as they
relegated them to being essentially and eternally meaningless were the Lord to
return within a few years. As “the Lord
is near,” the Philippians were to be gentle and caring with everyone with the
objective of winning as many people as possible to the Lord. They emphasis upon saving souls prevented
them from entertaining life’s daily negativity as they looked forward to a
joyous eternity. Actually, it helps
sometimes to assess the eternal worth of your problems. Usually, they pale greatly in comparison with
the rewards, rejoicing and righteousness of eternity.
Third,
Paul simply and explicitly condemns anxiety and negativity. “Do not be anxious about anything.” Below, I offer a few practical techniques for
eliminating negative thinking. Yet, Paul
states the fundamental and primary necessity of annihilating negative
thinking. Despite where you began life,
you cannot progress toward your dreams and goals if you perpetually entertain
and nurse doubt, skepticism and complaints.
That mentality questions God’s character as it indicts His past
faithfulness. Is He really able to
assist me as I struggle with today’s major challenge? Negative thinking disregards the biblical
promise of divine provision of every need and our Heavenly Father’s sworn
testimony through Jesus Christ that He will never leave or forsake us. We are not helpless and powerless in any
situation. God does no abandon us like
orphans left in a crowded public area without any clue. As His love is unfailing and His faithfulness
unquestionable, we have absolutely no need to be anxious about anything we
experience.
“In
everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to
God.” Prayer and meditation are the most
effective means of eliminating negative thoughts. A cardinal spiritual discipline, prayer
allows us to speak frankly, honestly, freely and openly with our Heavenly
Father about our feelings, desires, needs and problems. We petition Him for wisdom, guidance, peace
and resolution. A victim of perpetual
sexual molestation, incest and abuse, Celie, one of the main characters in
Alice Walker’s The Color Purple,
talks with God about her predicament in a very raw manner. A colleague once shared his need to swear
openly and loudly toward the nighttime heavenly skies in order to ensure God
heard him. Hopefully, we can dispense
with religious rituals and other formalities as we pray. Legalisms about prayer such as the physical
posture in which a person prays, the length of the prayer or the order of the
wording and requests often detracts significantly from the empowerment and
encouragement of this essential spiritual practice.
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