Eliminating Negative Thinking – Philippians 4:4-9
The
town of Sleepy Hollow unexpectedly experiences its biggest and unimaginable
commotion. The antecedent of this ruckus
actually is a daily and impromptu stroll between Mr. Lie and Mr. Truth. Loud, boisterous, vociferous and loquacious,
the former gentleman dresses impeccably with fine designer “knock offs” which
he buys at TJ Maxx, Marshalls, Filene’s Basement or various outlets. Notwithstanding his challenging demeanor,
many people who encounter Mr. Lie are seduced by his fashionable and striking
outward appearance. They confuse the
volume with which he speaks with authority and certitude. Coupled with his near original designer
clothing, they succumb to the easy temptation of believing his every word. In a very clear but subtle contrast, Mr.
Truth wears authentic designer clothes but without any “bling,” accessories or
ostentation. Many people inadvertently
and haphazardly ignore him despite the clarity and reliability of his
character. Nonetheless, these two
gentlemen have a chance encounter one morning and end up walking together
toward the town of Sleepy Hollow.
As
they travel along the road, they discuss their clear differences about any
number of life’s pressing questions. As
the noon sun rises to the middle of the sky and this summer day’s temperatures
rise accordingly, they near a large pond.
Mr. Lie suggests they stop and take a skinny dip to escape the heat and
refresh themselves. Mr. Truth complies
with this seemingly harmless suggestion.
Once in the water, Mr. Lie silently and secretly begins to covet Mr.
Truth’s clothes as Mr. Lie recognizes authenticity when he sees it. Encouraging Mr. Truth to dip more deeply, Mr.
Lie slides away while Mr. Truth is under water.
Mr. Lie steals Mr. Truth’s clothes and heads quickly toward Sleepy Hollow. Within a quarter of an hour of Mr. Lie’s
stealthy departure, Mr. Truth discovers he has been duped. Furiously, he jumps out of the pond and
dashes immediately to Sleepy Hollow.
Upon his arrival, Mr. Truth creates the hugest disturbance ever experienced
by the residents of this quaint, rustic, austere and rural town of picturesque
dawns, glacial social changes and reflective sunsets. On this late afternoon as the townspeople
gathered in the saloon on the far end of town, they heard this resounding
disturbance. Butt-naked and wailing like
a banshee let out of hell, Mr. Truth came screeching, protesting and demanding
his clothes back! Bewildered and
awestruck, the refined citizens of Sleepy Hollow stood motionless as they had
never encountered the butt-naked truth before.
I
hope the preceding story motivates you to accept a raw and naked truth which
most people uncritically accept as they attend to their daily affairs. Most people surrender to negative patterns of
thinking without considering an alternative.
We expect negative circumstances to emerge. We prepare for negative consequences to our
choices. We do not wish to be caught off
guards and unawares if something adverse were to occur. Let’s test my hypothesis about this very
normal and human tendency. Do you have a
plan for prosperity? If you won the
lottery or inherited an unexpected sum of money, do you have a plan to maximize
this good fortune? How often are you
afraid you will lose something or someone you greatly value? Do you live with persistent anxiety about
money, job security, relationships, health, or your future? When you contemplate the future, do you
expect success and excellence? Instead,
do you simply hope by some mysterious magic or stroke of good luck you will
fulfill your dreams and achieve your goals?
Simply, are you better prepared to respond to failure than you are ready
to maximize upon success?
At
traffic lights, do dangerous scenarios of fatal accidents speed across the
horizon of your mind? Do you begin to sweat
profusely when you check your daily mail or online bank accounts? Do you apply for jobs and other opportunities
with a foreboding feeling that you are wasting your time and effort? Are you able to rebound from disappointments
and failures with periods of paralysis and negativity? Have you made debt a way of life feeling
hopeless to live without charging and accumulating more unsecured debt? Do you have difficulty in throwing things
away even when you purchase new items to replace them? If yes, how long have you been living in lack
as you wear excessively mended clothes and cracked shoes? Does fear invade your loving
relationships? Do you often dread the
possibility that the people who are nearest and dearest to your heart will
leave suddenly and shockingly? Does the
sum of these negative thoughts consume ninety percent or more of your mental
energy? Probably, you are most prone to intractable negative thinking.
As
a descendant of African Americans who grew up the century and a half following
the end of chattel slavery in the South within a context of segregation and
poverty, I marvel at the extreme limitations of this milieu. Crippling the soul, poverty paralyzes
imagination, destroys dreams, limits the world and impedes progress. Its cumulative and constant affect is
ingrained negative thinking which becomes a way of life. Success in life depends significantly upon
whether a person can win an internal struggle to overcome this prevalent
mental, emotional and spiritual dilemma.
As a mature personally and grow spiritually in the afternoon of my life,
I am dumbfounded by how extensively negative ideas influenced my life
heretofore. Like Charlie Brown who
refuses to believe he will ever receive a fair chance to pitch in a baseball
game, I had an extremely hard time believing life would grant me a
well-deserved opportunity to achieve my potential. However, I hasten to juxtapose this cultural
and contextual negativity with an equally entrenched faith in Almighty God and
myself. At any moment, I fluctuate
between these polar opposites.
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