A Good Helping
of Famous Amos Cookies
During
my collegiate years, I heard a sermon in which the preacher loved chocolate
chip cookies. Actually, he assured the
listening congregation there would be chocolate chip cookies in heaven. His lack of theological orthodoxy greatly
offended one of my contemporaries as the preacher mentioned this forthcoming
celestial delight a few times during his homiletical discourse. Perhaps guilty of sophistry, I relished the
idea because chocolate chip cookies happen to be one of my most favorite treats. The founder of Famous Amos Cookies, Wally
offers us a good helping of spiritual chocolate chip cookies as he shares hard
earned lessons in starting, securing and succeeding in business.
Many
people spend inordinate amounts of time and energy attempting to eliminate or
neutralize their weaknesses. They assume
the lack of flaws equates with perfection.
It stands to reason that a person without limitations can achieve and
excel at anything. However, recent
research trends in business, intrapersonal and organizational systems stipulate
this approach is a colossal waste of time.
Rather than eradicating weaknesses, a person gains mostly by building
upon strengths. Wally “Famous” Amos
reflects, I learned that I should have
spent more time doing what I was good at – marketing and promoting and
glad-handing – rather than trying to do all the things I wasn’t good at. Trying to turn deficiencies into assets
consumes twice the time and energy required to expand upon talent or
passion. It drains creativity and laughter
from you when you focus upon tasks you simply do not enjoy. Inevitably, your mind wanders as you wish you
were elsewhere. Amos learned after
repeated trials and errors to delegate tasks that are not his strengths.
Work
from your strengths instead of spending huge chunks of time compensating for
your weaknesses. Assets emerge naturally
from self-evaluation. It is important to
know specifically your talents and abilities.
This knowledge in turn yields self-acceptance and self-confidence which
enable you to trust your intuition.
These attributes fuel your ability to complete a task without
questioning your wherewithal. You
maximize your potential when you concentrate upon your forte. Amos says Another
thing I’ve learned from my mistakes is that it’s important to work from your
strengths. Focus your time and energy on
the things you do best. Leave the rest
to the other members of the team.
He
learned to embrace mistakes as they yield better outcomes. Most people shun mistakes; gloss over them;
and refuse to admit them. In contrast,
Amos characterizes mistakes as the necessary pathway to success. An old adage posits, “Show me a man who have
never made a mistake and I will show you a man who has never attempted anything
meaningful.” Amos learned to welcome
mistakes as building blocks of dreams. When all is said and done, mistakes are the
process through which we in turn create success. Mistakes create the foundation for our life.
In
addition to Amos’ wisdom, I recommend Marcus Buckingham and Donald O. Clifton’s
book, Now, Discover Your Strengths
which formalizes Amos’ experiential lessons as their primary premise. An online test accompanies the book. Requiring forty-five minutes of uninterrupted
time, this socially scientific and methodologically respectable test delineates
your five fundamental strengths. The
book defines thirty-four predominant strengths.
Buckingham and Clifton argue that a strength is a talent or skill you
perform well consistently over a long period of time. Winning one competitive swum meet does not
make an Olympian of you. Coordinating
one great dinner party does not mean you are a professional events
planner. Writing one bestselling book
does not mean you should quit your job and become a fulltime writer. Rather, if you possess internal ability and
self-discipline to perform a task to a superlative degree consistently, then
you have a strength. Additionally,
Buckingham and Clifton insist that strengths are hardwired within us. They do not fluctuate like fleeting thoughts
and illusions of grandeur. Amos’ experience
wisely instructs us to invest in developing our strengths as they definitely
comprise our characters.
Arguably,
mistakes are the very best teachers in life.
However, you can minimize them as you focus upon your strengths. Famous Amos’ sage advice also prevents you
from becoming a jack of all trades and a master of none as you learn to focus
upon what you do best.
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