“God
Specializes in New Beginnings”
This quote reassures us of God's redemptive purposes in our
lives. An immortal verse in the New Testament, Romans 8:28, says "We
know all things work together for the good of those who love the Lord and are
called according to His purpose." We can face any adversity
straightforwardly with confidence that God mysteriously creates new beginnings
out of each tragedy, failure or adversity.
I know an Ivy League graduate who was reared by
his beloved paternal grandparents instead of his parents. The latter couple
was incapacitated significantly as it relates to sharing selfless and sacrificial
love with their seven children. The mother, under the ruse of running an
errand to a convenience store to buy bread, eggs, meat, milk and cheese
actually abandoned her seven children who ranged in age from ten years old to
six months. Inexplicably, she walked away from her family for a lover whom
she spent following thirty-eight years with in a common law marriage. The
father, allegedly physically and emotionally abusive, was also drowning in alcoholism.
Returning from work late that evening, he discovered his wife's abandonment of
their marriage and children. Unable to function as a single parent, he
takes his children to his parents originally intending to return and
re-establish his cohesive nuclear family. His parents agree to rear his
children, their grandchildren, out of their understanding of the Christian
faith more than their blood relationship.
Conventional wisdom assumes my colleague would have had a
more preferable childhood had he and his siblings been reared by their parents.
However, when you look more closely at his prism of experience, you
undoubtedly conclude that presupposition is wrong. His paternal
grandparents who had grade school educations instilled the invaluable worth of
formal education within him and his siblings. Of the seven of them, only
one did not graduate from high school. Three of them earned college degrees.
He has three masters degrees. Two of his four degrees were earned
at Ivy League schools. Amazingly, he attained these educational
milestones having been reared in a context of poverty, low ranked public
schools and very low property values. Would his personal and professional
successes have been equal or greater had his parents reared him? He
resolves their fundamental character defects made them incapable of guiding him
in attaining his lofty goals.
As he reflects upon this truth, he realizes
Almighty God's majestic handiwork. A dual parental abandonment
understandably would crush the soul and annihilate the dreams of anyone.
However, if God embeds seeds of providence and new beginnings within such
a tragedy, then this hardship demonstrates God's faithfulness as he continually
designs new beginnings at the juncture of human termination and trials.
He uses two Christian senior citizens to prepare a future
pastor, teacher of the Word of God, and counselor. Interestingly, they
were the couple best prepared to train and develop a future church leader. In their early sixties having recently built
a new house in which to wind down their lives as they enter their autumn years,
this very devoted couple to Christ genuinely understood His love and became His
chosen instruments to rear this future clergyman. What began as a horrible episode in the life
of a frightened toddler who was a few months away from his third birthday
eventually became one of the very best occurrences in his life. In retrospect, the hard facts of his life
included parental abandonment, poverty, public housing, scarcity, and public
assistance. Providentially, God embeds
authentic spirituality, grandparental wisdom, genuinely compassionate teachers
and neighbors, supportive congregants, bold and courageous dreams and
disciplined work ethic. Specializing in new beginnings, God mystically
transforms this pastor’s most horrific experience into a gateway to commence
his journey toward the life he imagined as a child.
Further, God uses two senior citizens with little formal
education or professional standing to model the Christian life for this future
leader in the Church. Had his parents reared him, undoubtedly he would
have been a statistic of some sort. Rather than a Southern state where
the tri-fold values of God, country and family are normative, the inner city
public housing projects of the Northeast would have been the setting of his
childhood. There, the vicious and pernicious cycle of subpar education,
public assistance, economically based racism, malnutrition and systemic poverty
would have ground his dreams and hopes like beef before packaging. As God
specializes in new beginnings, the trip to his paternal grandparents home was
the origins of his journey toward success and service. In the colossal
tragedy of dual parental abandonment, Almighty God sows the seeds of providence
which mature into a whole new life for him.
As God is not a respecter of persons, He will
perform equal miracles in your life. Writing
to the Hebrew exiles of the Babylonian captivity, Isaiah shares this divine
promise. "Behold, I will do a new thing says the Lord! Do you
not perceive it?" (Isaiah 43:19) Regardless of how deep the night appears,
press forward to a new dawn. The appearance of the sun on the horizon of
a new day symbolizes God uncanny ability to create something new and priceless
out of your past.
“Every exit is an
entrance.” As train riders leave their
seats and walk onto the terminal’s platform, they actually begin a new journey
at the point of termination. This image
drawn from daily commuting parallels life’s personal and spiritual
journey. As “pain is the touchstone of
all spiritual progress,” Almighty God hides new beginnings within the rubble of
storms, defeat and failure; transforming an ending into a new beginning.
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